What This Experience Is
Lingerie & Lace brings together the elevated nightclub experience of live DJ energy, VIP lounge options, and bottle service with the freedom, allure, and sexy confidence of a lifestyle club.
First Time?
Start with the dance floor, enjoy the music, and explore at your own pace. Everything is optional. You choose how your experience unfolds.
The Energy
Bold, social, high-energy, and unapologetically sexy — with clear communication, consent, and respect at the center of the culture.
The Space
Club Safe Word is a discreet, fully immersive lifestyle venue designed with both energy and intimacy in mind. BYOB bar staff, dance floor, DJ stage, private and semi-private spaces to explore.
Let’s make it effortless—and unforgettable.
📞 Call or Text 951-523-0587 to Start Planning
What to Expect
- Live DJ beats with nonstop, high-energy club music
- A sexy, confident dance floor with movement, chemistry, and escalating energy
- DJ dance party ticket options for guests who want the vibe without committing to the full afterparty
- Open and semi-private play spaces available later in the evening
- Private spaces for more focused, intimate connection
- Upscale lifestyle club atmosphere designed for adults who value consent and communication
Whether you’re in the mix or enjoying the view, every space offers a different way to connect with the energy.
Ticket Options
Dress to shine, step onto the dance floor, and decide your experience as it unfolds.
Start with the energy, feel the vibe, and upgrade only if you want more.
DJ Dance Party / Lifestyle Space Intro · 7PM–10PM
Typically $0–$20 per person, depending on event and timing.
Come for the music, the movement, and the atmosphere. No pressure, no expectations — just a high-vibe dance floor with the option to explore more if the night feels right.
Vibing with the energy? Upgrade at the front desk if you decide to stay and play.
Early Bird Advantage
Early bird passes offer the best value. Major discounts are usually available when you purchase at least one week in advance.
Flexible Options
- Non-member passes for full-access experiences
- Discounted member passes for BIA Vida and Club Safe Word members
- Exclusive VIP upgrades available in limited quantities
- 10% off for member veterans and active service members with verified profile discount
Single males must have an approved profile and active membership to remain once play spaces open.
Dress Code & Flow
Dress to shine. This is a nightlife environment — festive, sexy, and confident. Show up like you’re part of the celebration.
- Men: Collared shirts required. No shorts. No flip-flops.
- Ladies: Lingerie, lace, clubwear, and anything that makes you feel powerful, bold, and unforgettable.
Arrive in street-appropriate club wear. Many guests transition into lingerie when the dance floor fills in and the vibe feels right. Coat check and lockers are available. Nudity is always optional — never required.
How the Experience Flows
Arrive dressed to shine, settle in, grab a drink, and explore the space.
A quick, playful way to meet people and break the ice before the music takes over.
The dance floor comes alive and the space shifts into full Lingerie & Lace energy.
Most guests transition whenever they feel ready. Some change early, some later — there is no formal switch time.
Private and semi-private play spaces become available from 10PM–2AM. DJ dance party pass holders must leave or add-on by 10PM.
Guests who start with the DJ dance party can check in at the front desk and upgrade if they decide they want more.
Logistics
- Bring your ID — 21+ only. Name on order must match ID.
- Address and directions are emailed with confirmation after pass purchase.
- Cash at the door is welcome, but please RSVP in advance.
- Only single males are required to have a membership.
- BIA Vida and Club Safe Word members receive discounted pricing access.
- Early bird passes usually offer the best value.
- Lockers are available — bring your own lock or leave an ID to borrow one.
- Coat check is available.
- Wristbands are used to identify play preferences and solo/coupled gents.
- This is BYOB. Bring your adult beverages of choice and check them in with the bartender.
- Mixers are limited. If you have unique mixer preferences, bring your own and check them in with the bartender.
Featured DJ Energy
DJ Mister E brings the sound, the vibe, and the nonstop energy. Known for reading the room and keeping the dance floor moving, he delivers top hits, high-energy mashups, and genre-blending sets that keep every generation in the mix.
Expect a dance floor that stays packed and an energy curve that keeps building.
FAQ
Do I need a membership?
Only single males are required to have a membership. Couples and single females do not.
Do members get a discount?
Yes. BIA Vida and Club Safe Word members receive discounted pricing access.
Can I start with the DJ dance party and decide later?
Yes. Guests can start with the dance floor and upgrade at the front desk if they decide they want to continue.
Do you offer early bird pricing?
Yes. Major discounts are usually available when passes are purchased at least one week in advance.
Do I have to participate in speed dating if I arrive before 7:30?
No. It is encouraged if it sounds fun, but participation is completely optional.
Who can participate in speed dating?
Anyone who arrives before 7:30 and wants to participate is encouraged to join.
Do you accept cash at the door?
Yes. Cash at the door is welcome, but please RSVP in advance.
Is this BYOB?
Yes. Bring your own adult beverages of choice. They will be checked in with the bartender, who will make your drinks on request.
Can I bring my own mixers?
Yes. Mixers are limited, so if you have unique mixer preferences, bring your own and check them in with the bartender.
Are coat check and lockers available?
Yes. Both coat check and lockers are available.
When does the DJ play?
The DJ typically plays from 8PM–12AM.
When do play spaces open?
Play spaces open from 10PM–2AM.
Are there private spaces?
Yes. There are both private and semi-private play spaces.
What is the photo and video policy?
Limited photo/video content may be captured during the dance party only. No identifiable content will be shared without consent. After 10PM, photo and video policies become much more restrictive.
What is the ratio of males to females?
Tickets are available to ladies, couples, and select single males. Single males must have a preapproved profile before attending. Ratios are carefully maintained. If you are looking for hotwife-style parties with many single males, or are a single male with a hotwife mentality, we do host Hotwife events — but Lingerie & Lace is not that style of event.
Do you offer group specials?
Contact us if you’d like to celebrate a special occasion or arrange something unique for a group of friends. We’d be honored to help you host a special outing for your group.
Other questions? Text or call Steve & Sasha at 951-523-0587.
SEE UPCOMING LINGERIE & LACE EVENTS
Address and directions will be emailed with confirmation after pass purchase.
